February 13: Insight Post by Mario Colorado

  -   February 13, 2026

I recently found myself in a courtroom during a case where the lines between “victim” and “offender” felt completely blurred. As the proceeding unfolded, resentment and bitterness began rising in me—not just toward the individuals involved, but even toward the judge. By the time I walked out, my heart was filled with judgment, and I was disgusted with everyone in the room. These are the moments when living out God’s wisdom becomes incredibly difficult for me.

Frustrated, I prayed for wisdom because I’m tired of continually falling short in situations like this. Later that week, I read Ephesians 1:17,“Asking God, the glorious Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, to give you spiritual wisdom and insight so that you might grow in your knowledge of God.” The timing of this verse was no accident—it stopped me and made me reflect on how quickly I slip into judgmental thinking.

I asked God for a practical trigger, something to interrupt that downward spiral. God never fails: whenever I start to feel negativity rising, I need to pause and look inward. I ask myself, “What am I doing, thinking, or assuming that is feeding these feelings of hostility and judgment?” This simple shift has become a way for me to apply God’s wisdom in real time, rather than reacting out of my own frustration.

Fast forward to this Sunday, and Rusty’s message couldn’t have been further on point. He outlined three habits that help limit rock throwing:

1. Assume I have a log in my eye. (Matthew 7:3)
2. Ask God to show me what it is. (Psalms 139:23-24)
3. Ask or listen to others for input and feedback. (Psalms 27:5-7)

I am making slow progress, and continuing to exercise these spiritual muscles will help lead me to gaining more wisdom, which in turn leads to leading a more God-centered, peaceful life.

Mario Colorado
Director of Men’s Ministry and Men’s Small Groups

New Hope Church
Lorton, Virginia
www.newhope.org